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EPISODE 8: Don't Post Your Way To Unemployment
Remember freedom of speech? I don’t know about you, but lately, I feel as if we have lost it. If social media reflects the health of our society today, I’m afraid that our blood pressure has reached toxic levels. The art of debate has been replaced by harassment and bullying. On a daily basis, I see Facebook friends brawl and publicly unfriend each other. If Facebook is where friendships go to die, Twitter is where strangers go to battle.
When you’re watching the online war of words unfold, it’s easy to feel compelled to jump into the conversation.
EPISODE 7: Seven Steps To Entrepreneurship
I can’t remember the exact moment I had the thought, but it was an epiphany. It crept in slowly, like someone trying to startle me: “What if I didn’t have the title of SVP Global Communications anymore?” What if I wasn’t the voice of DKNY PR GIRL®, commanding the attention of half-a-million followers on Twitter? What would happen if I quit my job?” Those questions spun around my head like clothes in a dryer.
I decided I had to find out.
For the record, my last job was the stuff dreams were made of. I’m very sure that people would line up for blocks to have the opportunity to step into my role.
EPISODE 6: The Sound of Silence
Imagine for a moment that you're pitching new business. You have the correct contact and are preparing your initial outreach email. It has to be perfect, so you spend hours crafting a compelling message. You spell-check and grammar-check to the point of OCD, and you feel really good about your pitch. GIRL ON FIRE good. Then you take a deep breath and hit SEND.
EPISODE 5: Do you feel like an imposter? Good. Join the Club.
This week, with amazing contributions and advice from Emmy Rossum, Nina Garcia, Roman Tsunder, Hillary Kerr, Katherine Power, Samantha Ettus, Mickey Boardman, Bevy Smith, Dave Kerpen, Nicole Lapin, Peter Shankman, Melanie Notkin and Mary Alice Stephenson.
"I'm convinced that I've somehow tricked my boss into thinking that I'm more adept than I am. There's no way that I'm fit for this promotion," wrote *Jane in an email to me. I stared at my computer in disbelief. I couldn't help but think sarcastically, "Sure Jane. Your boss gave you this promotion because you tricked her. She hasn't considered any of your work history at all. Hell, she probably just felt bad for you, and that's why you got promoted."
NO, NO and also NO.
I immediately started pounding on my keyboard.
EPISODE 4: "On Wednesdays We Wear Pink"
"Aliza, I'm quitting! I can't take it anymore!" read the text message that had just popped up on my phone. It was 7:20 am on a Saturday morning, and I had barely rolled over, let alone had a sip of coffee. Okay, I thought to myself, I need to put out this fire, but later, at a more decent hour.
Understanding human nature seems to be one of my strong suits. In turn, career therapist is a badge that I wear frequently. As much as I am happy to help in this area, it also saddens me to consider how many of my friends (and readers who have written into #AskAliza) have similar work problems. Politics is the hottest topic in America right now, but in the workplace, office politics has always ruled.
Later that afternoon I called my friend *Jason to talk him off the ledge of job suicide.
EPISODE 3 "Is this what I am supposed to be doing right now?"
Over the past few weeks, I have taken power networking to new levels. Quite frankly, it's been exhausting. But we must keep busy, right? Otherwise, we risk getting rusty or worse, lazy. The truth is that I've never been one to relax; my brain is always on to the next thing I think I should be doing...
EPISODE 2 "Traffic"
Welcome back, dear readers. If you’re just joining my program, please do yourself a favor and go back to the archive and start with Episode 1. If you continue to read this, it's like startingHouse of Cards at Season 4. You wouldn’t know what Frank did to Zoe. Scratch that, you wouldn’t even know who Zoe was. In the same vein, you need to know a little bit about me to understand where I am coming from now.
Today’s BLACKBOARD topic is “traffic”. While I love Waze, it’s not that kind of traffic. The traffic I want to talk about is very, very different.